Queer Men Speed Dating 30's & 40's | Asbury Park | NJ Events

​Get ready to mix, mingle, and maybe find your match at our speed dating event tailored for queer men in their 30s and 40s!

​Join us for a vibrant speed dating night just for queer men in their 30s & 40s at Porta in Asbury Park! Ticket includes a welcome a welcome glass of Prosecco.

​This fun, fast-paced evening is all about creating genuine connections face-to-face—no apps, no endless swiping, just real conversations in a safe, welcoming space.

​You’ll start your night by grabbing the welcome glass of Prosecco included in your ticket (non-alcoholic option available). Then, you'll meet a variety of local queer men through quick, engaging rounds of 5–7 minute mini-dates. Each time the bell rings, you’ll rotate and meet someone new—no pressure, just a chance to see if sparks fly. At the end of the night, simply hand in your match card, and if there’s a mutual connection, we’ll let you know the very next day!

​Whether you’re looking for love, friendship, or simply a fun night out with amazing queer men, this event is about building connections that matter.

​How It Works

• ​Reserve your ticket early (space is limited!)

• ​Arrive 15 minutes before the event for check-in with our host

• ​Participants rotate at the sound of the bell to meet someone new

• ​Each round lasts 5–7 minutes—just enough to break the ice!

• ​Use our match card to jot down notes about each date

• ​Hand in your match card at the end of the night

• ​Receive your matches by email the next day

​It’s easy, engaging, and one of the best ways to experience offline dating in New Jersey.

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​The Venue

​📍Porta Asbury Park

​911 Kingsley St, Asbury Park, NJ 07712

​The Host

​🌟 Garden State Connections
https://linktr.ee/gsconnections